So one day, I stopped, but not completely. I started thinking more about slow living and how unnatural it feels in a world that constantly pushes speed. I’m not living in a forest now or throwing my phone into a river. I just started noticing things. Small things at first, like how quiet my room actually is when there’s no background noise or how long a minute feels when you’re not switching between five apps at the same time.
The Noise We Don’t Notice
Slowing down sounds peaceful in theory, but in reality, it’s weird. You suddenly realize how much of your life is filled with noise. Notifications, reels, random thoughts, unnecessary comparisons. When all that fades, even for a little while, it’s like, "Now what?"
But after a while something was different.
I started noticing the small things. Not a poem, not a Pinterest quote, just normal things I tend to overlook like how long it *really* takes for tea to cool down or how I compulsively pick up my phone even if there's nothing to check. Or my thoughts are like all over the place when I’m not distracting myself every 5 seconds. Slowing down didn’t suddenly make me peaceful. It just made me aware and honestly, that part wasn’t fun because when everything gets quiet, you don’t just notice the good stuff. You notice stress, overthinking, and random worries you’ve been avoiding. It’s like your brain goes, “Oh, you finally have time? Let’s unpack everything. ” Not exactly the relaxing vibe people advertise, but still there was something real about it.
Slow Living in a Digital World
I started realizing how fast I usually move through my own life, eating while scrolling, watching something while texting someone else, and listening without actually listening. It’s like I’m always half-present, never fully anywhere. Slowing down made me feel present and also slightly uncomfortable, both at the same time, and then there’s the digital world. Everything around us is built for speed, quick content, and fast replies. Instant everything: if a video doesn’t hook you in 3 seconds, you scroll; if a message isn’t replied to instantly, it feels like something’s off. Even rest has become something we try to optimize.
So is slowness even possible in this kind of world? I think not fully.
You can't simply disconnect from everything and live as if it's 2005. That is not realistic. Our lives are now online. Work, social life, and entertainment are all blended together. Slowing down does not imply escaping it entirely.
But maybe it means choosing your pace inside it.
Like, not opening every notification the second it pops up. Watching one thing without also scrolling through something else. Letting moments exist without turning them into content. Small things. Almost boring things.
Slowness Isn’t Always Peaceful
And yeah, it’s harder than it sounds because speed feels good. It’s distracting, it’s easy, and it keeps you from thinking too much. Slowness asks you to sit with yourself, and most of us are not exactly excited about that. I’m still not.
Some days I go right back to scrolling endlessly, switching between apps like it’s a sport. And I don’t even notice until I feel drained again. It’s like my default setting is “fast,” and slowing down is something I have to consciously choose, but now at least I notice the difference.
Fast feels overcrowded. Slow feels clearer somehow. Not perfect or peaceful, just less noisy, and honestly, that might be the closest thing to slow living I’ve experienced in a long time.
I don’t think slowing down is about becoming this calm, balanced person who journals at sunrise and drinks aesthetic coffee. I think it’s just about creating tiny pauses in between all the noise. Moments where you’re actually there, not just existing on autopilot. Maybe slow living is less about escaping technology and more about becoming aware of how we move through life.
Even if it’s just for a few minutes. So yeah, slowness in a digital world isn’t easy. It’s kind of unnatural, honestly. Everything is designed to pull you back into speed.
But I’ve realized it’s not impossible either.
It just doesn’t look the way we expect. It’s messy. Inconsistent. Sometimes uncomfortable but also a little bit freeing, and right now, that feels like something worth holding onto.
And maybe the point isn’t to win at slowing down because trust me, this isn’t some productivity hack you can master and tick off your list. You don’t suddenly become a “slow person” and stay there forever. Life doesn’t work like that. One busy day, one stressful moment, and you’re right back to speed without even realizing it. I think it’s more like… remembering.
Keeping in mind that you don't need to fill every moment and that you don't have to rush through everything. that it's acceptable to sit with a message for a while or not respond to it right away.
Written by Iqra Ali, who enjoys exploring strange ideas, human behavior, and thought-provoking topics through writing.
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